Parenting challenges dad didn't expect - Ready Set Move to the rescue!
Like any new parent, Brent Pace was so excited to become a dad, but two years in he admits there's been
one area he didn't expect to find so difficult.
It's not the night-time wake-ups, not the changing of nappies, but the playtime.
The father-of-one admits playing with his daughter Elle
isn't always his "strong suit".
"Before becoming a dad, I expected I would find playing
with my child fairly easy," he says.
"Since Elle came into our world nearly two years ago,
I've realised playing with a child and making quality time is not as easy as
I'd anticipated."
The 33-year-old admits he often found himself taking the
easy option when it came to entertaining his daughter.
"I'd find myself defaulting to putting on a TV show or reading a book, easy choices that didn't require much from me."
But he's not alone, with new statistics showing 61% of parents find playing with their child challenging or monotonous.
A further 86% struggle to carve out time for this crucial activity.
Pace said it wasn't until he sought help at a play based class ‘Ready Set Move’ that he started to realise the importance of "active participation in her little world".
"I found a new kind of connection with her, it wasn't just about watching her from the sidelines; I was right there with her, dancing, playing, and, most importantly, learning."
Belinda Agostino, Director of Ready Set Dance who created the program 'Ready Set Move', says it's so important parents don't ignore the benefits of play.
"The research shows that play, particularly in the very early years, contributes to brain development, creates flexibility, enhances creativity, builds resilience to stress and promotes social awareness and how to fit in with others," she says.
“While parents know the benefits of play, they don't know how to get started themselves”.
50% of parents are not confident they could help their child to play, while 36% admit they don't know how to play with their child.
"More play-based activities are needed to help parents prioritise play with their toddlers, re-learn the joys of play themselves and introduce their children to the developmental benefits."
She says we need to "change the way we see play" because it's a "highly intellectual engagement" that can help with brain growth.
The benefits aren't just for the kids, either.
"Getting involved with your child and playing with them more will impact your brain the same way – basically, we get smarter the more we play."
For Brent, participating in Elle's playtime has been a transformative experience. Unlike the traditional play that can sometimes feel aimless or stressful for parents, Ready Set Move offered structured play that was both engaging and developmental.
"Seeing Elle progress from being in my arms during activities to independently exploring and learning has been incredibly rewarding. It's not just play; it's seeing her grow and develop right before my eyes."
This structured approach to play has also allowed Brent to bond with Elle in a unique way. "It's our special day together," he says. "This program has given us a platform to share in these early experiences, fostering a deeper bond."
Encouraging Other Parents
Brent's perspective on play, especially as a father, has been transformed by his experience with the Ready Set Move program. Traditional play, often unguided and sporadic, pales in comparison to the structured, yet liberating, environment of their chosen program. "Seeing Elle's journey from clinging to me to confidently exploring her environment has been nothing short of magical. It's play with a purpose, and the growth is palpable."
To parents considering programs like Ready Set Move, Brent offers a piece of advice: "The benefits far outweigh any perceived negatives. It's about opening their minds to music, movement, and the joy of play. These are the building blocks for a healthy, happy child.”
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